Frequently Asked Questions

Is there an age range?

Unless a specific age range is stated on the event listing, our events are open to all ages (18+).

Because everyone books individually, we don’t know exactly who will attend until the night itself, so we’re unable to guarantee a particular age range in advance. That said, our events naturally attract a broad mix of ages, and we focus much more on creating a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere than grouping by age alone.

Will there be an equal number of men and women?

We work hard to keep our events as close as possible to a 50/50 gender split, and this is something we actively manage rather than leaving to chance.

That said, real life does get involved — people book late, plans change, and not everyone who buys a ticket turns up on the night. Men often book much closer to the event, while women tend to book earlier, so ratios can fluctuate in the lead-up.

What we can promise is that we monitor ticket sales closely, hold back tickets when needed, and do our very best to create a balanced, comfortable environment for everyone.

Do I have to be confident or outgoing to come along?

Not at all. Many of our guests come on their own and may feel a little nervous at first — that’s completely normal.

Our hosts are there to make everyone feel welcome, help break the ice, and gently bring people together. Whether you’re chatty or more reserved, there’s space for you here.

Can I come on my own?

Absolutely — most people do.

Coming solo is very much the norm at our events, and you definitely won’t be the only one arriving on your own.

What actually happens at the event?

This depends on the type of event:

• Social Mixers: Relaxed, informal evenings where you can chat, mingle, and move around freely.
• Slow Dating events: Light structure with short, timed conversations so everyone gets the chance to meet one another, followed by open socialising.

Each event listing will clearly explain what format to expect.

What should I wear?

Whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident.

Most people go for smart-casual — something you’d wear to meet friends for a drink. There’s no dress code and no pressure to dress a certain way.

Do I need to drink alcohol?

Not at all.

Many guests enjoy a drink, but there’s absolutely no expectation to drink alcohol. Soft drinks, coffee, and non-alcoholic options are always welcome.

What if I don’t click with anyone romantically?

That’s completely okay.

Many people come for the social aspect alone — to meet new people, enjoy a night out, or build confidence. Friendships often form too, and sometimes it’s just about having a great evening in good company.

Are your events inclusive?

Yes — inclusivity is at the heart of what we do.

We aim to create welcoming, respectful spaces where everyone feels comfortable, safe, and valued.

What time do hosts stay until?

Our hosts are present for the first two hours of each event to welcome guests, facilitate the evening, and ensure everything runs smoothly. After that, guests are welcome to continue enjoying the venue at their own discretion.

Can I bring a friend?

Yes — as long as they’re single.

We’ve created these events as spaces where everyone can feel confident that the people around them are also single. This helps remove any uncertainty and allows everyone to relax, connect, and enjoy the evening knowing they’re in the right place.

What if I arrive late?

That’s absolutely fine.

Guests are welcome to arrive later if needed. Please note that welcome drinks are usually available during the first hour only, so late arrivals may miss this — but you’ll still be warmly welcomed and able to join in.

What happens if I need to cancel?

We allow cancellations up to two days before the event, unless otherwise stated.

Some events may have different cancellation terms, and these will always be clearly specified on the ticket page. Please check the individual event details before booking.

How do connection cards and matches work?

At events where connection cards are used, you’ll be invited to write down the name of anyone you’d like to connect with and return the card to us.

If the feeling is mutual, we’ll be in touch to let you know and facilitate the exchange of details. By taking part and submitting a connection card, you agree to your contact details being shared in the event of a match, in line with our terms and conditions.

Are your events wheelchair accessible?

We aim to make our events as inclusive as possible and make reasonable adjustments where we can. As venues vary, accessibility differs by location, so we always encourage guests to message us ahead of booking to confirm access needs.